借錢傷害友誼嗎？Does Borrowing Money Hurt Friendship?

When you need a lot of money, you first thing you do is to borrow money from your friend, while doing this sometimes may do harm to your friendship. First, your friends may not have too much money at hand, he or she maybe suffer from the lack of cash flow at that moment. Everyone has their own worries, when you borrow money, they always have to struggle for a while, their hesitations make you begin to doubt your friendship is true or whether your friends treat your as real one. Second, most people can’t return the money in time, because they have all kinds of difficulties, this will make your friends in a awkward situation. They are considering whether to ask you return the money, if they do, this will make you embarrassed; If they don’t, they will lack of money. So it is better not to borrow money from your friend.

當你需要很多錢的時候，你第一件事做的就是向你朋友借錢，然而這樣做有時候會傷害你的友誼。第一，你的朋友也許沒有很多的錢在手上，他或她可能遭遇著流動資金的不足。每個人都有他們自己的擔憂，當你借錢的時候，他們總要掙扎一會，他們的猶豫讓你開始懷疑你們之間的友誼是否真實或者你的朋友是否把你真當朋友。第二，大部分人不能及時還錢，因為他們有各種各樣的困難，這會讓你朋友出于尷尬的境地。他們考慮著是否叫你還錢，他們叫了，會讓你尷尬；如果不叫，他們就缺錢。所以最好不要向你的朋友借錢。